In a recent episode of Grit Won’t Quit, host Tom Mirabella sat down with Sarah Proia, author of Reality Designer and a powerhouse TikTok creator, to discuss how she turned her dreams into a tangible blueprint for success. Sarah’s journey is a testament to resilience, reinvention, and the power of simply taking action.
A Journey Rooted in Grit
Sarah’s path to success wasn’t straightforward. She faced personal hardships, including the tragic loss of her father, and overcame significant challenges, from homelessness to struggling with a learning disability. But rather than letting these obstacles define her, Sarah chose to carve her own way forward, determined to be the person for others that she wished she had during her darkest times.
From a young age, Sarah embodied an entrepreneurial mindset. At just 16, she pursued cosmetology to make ends meet, using every skill she acquired as a stepping stone toward financial independence. This willingness to adapt and take action laid the foundation for the career she has today.
From TikTok to Bestseller
Sarah’s breakthrough moment came when she amassed over 100,000 followers on TikTok, a platform she used to share her experiences and insights. This visibility led to her hosting a TV show, Reality Designer, where she interviewed celebrities and industry leaders, including Megan B. Murphy, the then-editor-in-chief of Women’s Day magazine. Sarah’s ability to network and secure interviews with high-profile figures was as simple as reaching out. Her key lesson? Most people never attempt to pursue their dreams because they assume rejection is inevitable. But in reality, just trying sets you apart.
Her book, Reality Designer, was born from this philosophy. She wanted to create a guide that showed others how to turn their aspirations into actionable plans. Released in October 2024, the book became an international bestseller within days, topping the Amazon Short Read Self-Help category.
Overcoming Fear and Taking Action
One of the biggest hurdles for aspiring entrepreneurs, creators, and dreamers is stepping outside of their comfort zones. Sarah believes that people often dismiss their dreams as unrealistic, stopping themselves before they even begin. Her advice? Just take the first step.
Sarah’s life is proof that action creates opportunities. When she found herself homeless with a child, she didn’t wait for the perfect solution—she created it. She used her skills to provide childcare, did landscaping work, and took on any opportunity that could help her move forward. Each small step eventually led to bigger opportunities, culminating in her current success.
What’s Next for Sarah?
Sarah continues to grow her personal brand and business, recently stepping into a position at a youth facility to mentor individuals who are facing the same struggles she once endured. She’s also fielding requests for book launch coaching, helping others navigate the self-publishing process.
While she’s keeping details of her next big move under wraps, one thing is certain—her journey is far from over. Sarah is committed to using her experiences to help others realize their potential and pursue their passions.
Final Thoughts: Your Dreams Are Valid
Sarah’s story is a powerful reminder that dreams don’t have to remain fantasies. They require courage, action, and persistence, but they are attainable. If something is pulling at your heart, if you feel called to pursue a passion, Sarah encourages you to follow that feeling. The path may not always be clear, but the steps you take today can lead to opportunities you never imagined.
To connect with Sarah, follow her on TikTok (@sarahproia) and check out her book, Reality Designer, available on Amazon. Her community is one of support and encouragement—exactly what you need if you’re ready to start designing your reality.
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This podcast was filmed at WingmanPlanning in Manasquan, NJ.
If you’re looking for inspiration, motivation, or practical advice on breaking out of your comfort zone, this episode of Grit Won’t Quit is a must-listen. Tune in and start taking the bold steps necessary to build the life you’ve always imagined.
